A blessing to read

November 28, 2017 in Birth Stories, Book, Book reviews by enjoybirth

Such a beautifully written book! This has helped me not only recognize the spirituality of birth, but also childbearing and mothering. I am so happy this book exists!

I continue to find insights every time I pick it up.

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I lent out so many copies of this book

November 21, 2017 in Birth Stories, Book, Book reviews by enjoybirth

I’ve bought so many copies of this book! Some I gave out as gifts, but most I lent out and my friends loved it so much I let them keep it and bought myself a new one. This time I bought two, one to keep permanently (I like to write in my books) and one as a lender I’m sure I’ll have to replace again.

It is that good. Full of wonderful birth stories and advice for pregnancy and birthing.

I love this book so much.

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A great book for everyone!

November 14, 2017 in Birth Stories, Book, Book reviews by enjoybirth

The Gift of Giving Life Review of the Week

I didn’t read this book until my four children were born and I had a hysterectomy. I found healing and light at a time when I was wondering my own divine nature and where I belong.

This book is a great resource for everyone who wants to understand who they are, and the majesty of your life. Whether you were born or have in any capacity acted as a mother (that should cover everyone in the world)

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Best book ever!

November 7, 2017 in Birth Stories, Book, Book reviews by enjoybirth

The Gift of Giving Life Review of the Week

Oh my goodness! This book is incredible! If you only read one book about pregnancy, this should be it. It gives a whole new perspective on pregnancy and being a women.

Everything is from a spiritual point of view. It’s insightful and answers so many questions.

Love, love, love!

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Love this deeply inspiring book about birth and women

October 31, 2017 in Book reviews by enjoybirth

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I love this book! It explains birth to you physically and spiritually. It is beautiful and has gotten me so excited to birth natural and trust my body and the God who made it!!

 

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My favorite birth I didn’t attend…

October 30, 2017 in Angels, Birth Stories, Doulas, Dreams, home birth, hospital birth, Intuition, Sheridan by enjoybirth

Awhile ago Robyn posted about a birth that changed her heart.  It made me think about a recent birth I didn’t attend, at least not physically.

One of my dearest friends started as my Hypnobabies student many years ago. She asked me to be her doula. I attended Mia’s birth and it was a fine hospital birth. Not quite what she had hoped for, but there was love and joy there.   Wendy and I as her doulas, her husband, her mom and nurses and the doctor.

Then she asked me to attend Luca’s birth. A fun, joyous homebirth filled with angels and miracles. Wendy, Angela and I as her doula, husband, midwife, assistant, her mom and daughter, ancestors and angels too. I had a powerful spiritual experience at her birth.

When she was pregnant with her 3rd I knew I would be invited to her birth. However, I didn’t know if I would be there. I had a cruise planned for when she was due.  We were good friends by now and I certainly wanted to be there to offer her love and support. I also knew it would be an amazing spiritual birth and angels would be attending and I wanted to witness it.

I “knew” I wouldn’t be there. 

I attended her blessing way which was amazing and filled with love and well wishes. I had written a letter from God for her and it alluded to some things that made me wonder if she would have the homebirth she wanted and again I felt that I would miss the birth.

The week before I left Andrea started getting pressure from her midwife to do natural induction techniques as her liver levels were starting to look weird. Andrea felt strongly not to do that. I supported her, though I sort of wanted her to do them so I could be there for the birth. But I trusted her intuition!

The night before I left a friend and I took Andrea out for dinner. We discussed her plans and how she had gotten another blood test and was waiting on the results. We all agreed that things would work out the way they needed to, that Andrea just needed to keep praying and following the spirit. She trusted her care provider and God and all would end up fine.

Hospital Induction!

The next morning, as I was doing last minute preparations to leave for my trip, Andrea called me. Her midwife had called and said she needed to go to the hospital and get induced that day. Her liver levels were getting dangerous and homebirth was no longer an option. I had about an hour free and was able to go to her house and talk to her while she was trying to figure out which OB would take her and her insurance, pack, etc.

We had a spiritual moment together as the Spirit witnessed to both of us that she had been right not to do natural induction methods, that this baby needed to be born at the hospital and this was the least dramatic way for this to have unfolded.

Angela and Wendy showed up just as I was about to leave and we gathered around and sang Be Still My Soul and we prayed together for Andrea and her baby. That was a precious moment and I left knowing she was in good hands and that I would be there in spirit. That she would feel my love and that I had played the role I needed to in this birth in the past hour.

I left this full size painting with her, which she brought to the hospital. It reminded her I was there in spirit!5112141_She_Will_Find_What_Is_Lost_-_Brian_Kershisnik

It was so challenging for me, because by the next day as the boat left port, the baby still hadn’t been born. On the boat that night, I had a dream that I was at the birth and that all was well.   I was on pins and needles until the next time we had internet access. I was so relieved to hear that indeed a baby boy had been born safe and sound and all was well.

Blessings

I was able to be at church the Sunday they blessed baby Arrow and to hear rejoice in her testimony of following the Spirit when it comes to birth. That we can make our plans and that we need to be flexible and follow the spirit if plans have to change.

The birth was amazing, there were angels, there were miracles and while I am sad I physically missed being present at the actual birth. I still was able to be there in spirit and to be a part of her birth experience.

Because birth is not One Moment in time. It is a journey.

Thanks for letting me share about the favorite birth I missed.   I would love to hear about any experiences you have had about being at a birth, when you weren’t actually there.

(I have only missed 2 other births as a doula. 1 was an emergency cesarean and I arrived when the mom was already in surgery. The other I attended the 1st 24 hours and then left on a trip and my back up doula was able to be there for the birth.)

Love this book so much and so grateful for the positive outlook it gave on birth.

October 25, 2017 in Birth Stories, Book, Book reviews by enjoybirth

The Gift of Giving Life Review of the Week

This book is phenomenal!

I never knew motherhood, pregnancy and labor could be such a spiritual journey. It made me realize how divine motherhood is and how special each birth is! Love this book so much and so grateful for the positive outlook it gave on birth.

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The Gift of Giving Life was absolutely beautiful. It helped me prepare for birth spiritually

October 25, 2017 in Book reviews by enjoybirth

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This book was absolutely beautiful. It helped me prepare for birth spiritually, mentally and emotionally. I loved the stories but more than anything I loved the gospel perspective that it had, showing the similarities of motherhood/birth to Christ and the atonement.

It brought me peace and helped me to process birth trauma from before so I felt more prepared and mentally ready to give birth again.

I would highly recommend this to anyone.

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by Robyn

Echo Squires: A Pioneer Birth Story

June 26, 2017 in Birth Stories, Church History, LDS History, Robyn, Uncategorized by Robyn

Echo Lavinia Squires, Edward Martin Company

So, I want to apologize for neglecting the blog.  My husband and I were called to serve as the Trek Coordinators for our ward trek to Martin’s Cove, Sixth Crossing and Rocky Ridge this July.  We were given a late start, like the Martin and Willie companies and so we have been a little busy. We have been deep in preparations and while it is a lot of work, it has been a tremendous blessing to learn the stories in more detail and be filled by the indomitable spirit that these Saints had.

I wanted to quickly share a birth story I found while studying the efforts of the rescue party for the Willie and Martin Handcart Companies.  Patience Loader recorded the birth of a baby girl:

I well remember that when we campt in Echo Canyon that Sister [Sarah Cattlin] Squires was confind in the morning[.] she had alovely baby girl and thay named her Echo [Levinia Squires.] the morning she was born the father [Henry Augustus Squires] was run[n]ing around camp enquiring of everybody if they had apin to give him to pin something around the baby but I don’t think that he was able to get one[.] the breathren fixed the wagon very warm and comfortable for Sister Squires and boath her and baby ar[r]ived safe into the City.

There is also more to the story that John Jaques, who was a member of the Martin Handcart Company, recorded about Robert T. Burton, one of the rescuers:

The next camp . . . was in a small canyon running out of the north side of Echo canyon, a few miles above the mouth of the latter. Here a birth took place, and one of the relief party generously contributed part of his under linen to clothe the little stranger. The mother [Sarah Squires] did quite as well as could have been expected, considering the unpropitious circumstances . . . The little newcomer also did well, and was named Echo, in honor of the place of her nativity. She is still a resident of the territory, is a happy wife and mother, and lives in the north country (November 26, 1856).

It should be noted that Robert T. Burton’s job was to record the distribution of supplies which he cared for meticulously.  He did neglect to record that he literally gave the shirt off his own back to the little baby. His granddaughter later told the story, “After he had distributed all the clothing, Robert noticed a mother whose newborn baby did not have sufficient clothing to keep it warm, so he took off his own homespun shirt and gave it to the mother to cover the baby.”

Robert T. Burton, Rescue Company of 1856

His biography states that was just one example of how he lived his life with generosity. Some of his final words to his children were the reminder to “be kind to the poor.”

Kindness is an echo, isn’t it?  May we all look for an opportunities to “echo” service today.

 

Sources:

Tell My Story Too, page 431.

https://history.lds.org/overlandtravel/pioneers/1873/robert-taylor-burton

https://history.lds.org/overlandtravel/pioneers/19316/sarah-minnie-catlin-squires

https://history.lds.org/overlandtravel/pioneers/41265/echo-levinia-squires

https://history.lds.org/overlandtravel/sources/17824106200553894265-eng/archer-patience-loader-reminiscences-transcript-ms-6218-p-57-92?firstName=Echo Levinia&surname=Squires

 

 

A Necessary Addition to any Pregnancy Library

March 12, 2017 in Birth Stories, Book, Book reviews by enjoybirth

The Gift of Giving Life Review of the Week

I wish I had had this book when I was expecting my first child and I am so grateful to have it now that I’m expecting my fourth.

Outside of the Scriptures I have never read a more spiritual book that touched my heart, mind, and soul to this extent. I have had such a softening of my heart and expanding of my knowledge of temporal and spiritual things both related and unrelated to pregnancy, labor, and birth.

I cannot recommend this book highly enough to all expectant women. It can also touch and strengthen the lives of their partners in wonderful ways.

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