Chain Breaking

chain through heart hole in post

On December 21, 2012, (the day we transitioned fully into the Aquarian age,) I was weighed down with the heaviest energy of my entire life. A few days before, I started doing some energy work that I didn’t realize would have such a huge effect on me. I blogged about this on Dec 20th,here. If you read the blog post, you can feel the intensity—but the following day, the 21st, was even more intense. I felt like I was feeling all the hopelessness and despair of all of my ancestors and all of my husband’s ancestors too. It was so heavy I almost couldn’t bear it. I understood why people commit suicide (and several of my ancestors did). By evening when it hadn’t cleared up, I asked for help. A friend guided me through an imagery journey where I asked to connect with an angel of Joy. The following vision occurred, (I quote this is from my journal):

The angel of joy appeared, who was actually Heavenly Mother. She filled me with light and she told me that I was strong. She said she knew that I didn’t want to be strong but that it was my spiritual gift, so stop wishing it wasn’t. That was eye opening. She filled with me light and also helped me break the chains holding my body down. [They were very very heavy. I had a physical feeling of not being able to move on my bed.] Others came to help (ancestors?) but they couldn’t do it without my help. So I took the light within me and blasted the chains and freed them too.

The angel said that I’d feel joy when I woke up. I thought she meant in the morning, but I realize she could mean “wake up” as in become conscious and awake to the things of God.

 It was a strange imagery journey for me. It took a very long time to break the chains and when it was all over, I was still left with a feeling of not totally understanding or being free of them.

 Last week after talking to the amazing Sarah Hinze (premier researcher on Pre-Birth Experiences – which are similar and sometimes cross over with Near Death Experiences) about one of her books in progress tentatively called Chain Breakers, I remembered this vision. I now realize what it was about.

 As Sarah told me about her forthcoming book, she said that some of us have a mission in this life as chain breakers. As soon as she said it, I knew I am one, and so is my husband.

So what does it mean to be a chain breaker? In my experience, chain breaking is no small thing. Those of us who volunteered in the pre-existence to be chain breakers for our family lines have a heavy burden to bear. We come into this world with the energetic weight of generations of sins and sorrows and behavior patterns from our ancestors. Many people think because they have had certain traits/tendencies since they were born, that it is part of their personality. However, anger, defensiveness, harshness, addiction, fear, chronic depression, anxiety, guilt, grudges, etc, are not personality traits—they are energy distortions. And if you look through your family line and see them there too, they are most likely chains that need to be broken. (Please note: negative emotions aren’t necessarily a bad thing—and we shouldn’t try to do away with them, but sometimes emotions can become programs that take a life of their own.)

  Carlfred Broderick, a noted family therapist and author, wrote about this principle of chain breakers.

“. . . My profession as a family therapist has convinced me that God actively intervenes in some destructive lineages, assigning a valiant spirit to break the chain of destructiveness in such families.  Although these children may suffer innocently as victims of violence, neglect, and exploitation, through the grace of God some find the strength to “metabolize” the poison within them, refusing to pass it on to future generations. Before them were generations of destructive pain; after them the lines flow clear and pure. Their children and children’s children will call them blessed.”

 

These chains CAN be broken! Many such things that were once thought genetic are actually epigenetic (which means “on top of the genes”), and they can be cleared or pulled, like threads, from the family tapestry. One day in the spirit world, all of your ancestors and posterity will thank you!

 There are people close to me in my life that I can see quite clearly are chain breakers, like for example, my husband, but they themselves have no idea this is what they are carrying.

 Chain breaking is not just a selfish quest for self improvement—all of your ancestors and posterity are counting on you to do it. The weight of chain breaking can be lightened immensely just by understanding what it is you are doing. But if a person doesn’t understand it, the sheer heaviness of the burden can shut them down, as it almost did me on December 21, 2012. What a day to reach impact with your mission. Wow. I didn’t realize then what was happening, but I am awake to it now and what a joy! I also realize that it is my mission to help others who are chain breakers.

 So how does one break chains?

 Because they are not physical chains, but energetic/metaphysical, they have to be addressed on the same level. So what is energy healing? It is all kind of things. For example, saying kind words to someone or giving them a hug is energy healing. So is hypnotherapy. So is guided imagery. So is anointing someone’s head with oil and pronouncing a blessing. Basically we all energy and any techniques that are based on this life-giving, universal energy (which we know is the light of Christ) are called energy healing. As far as professionals, there are so many different modalities of energy healing out there (I have studied many of them and every time I turn around there is a new one—that’s not a bad thing. It shows God has many channels.) Many of these techniques are fabulous. Some are great but I find rather slow. Some are amazingly super fast. Sometimes it takes a whole combination of different tools to break your combination of chains.

 FYI, not all “energy healing” or “energy healers” are a good fit for Christ-centered people because they require you to give away your agency, which will only wrap you up in more chains. (The main things to avoid are anything that requires you to let an outside spirit use your body or anything that requires recreational drugs or psychedelic drugs even if they occur in nature. Other than that, just follow inspiration and trust your intuition. All healing comes from Christ, but the facilitator’s beliefs and energy will effect the healing.)

 Each person’s chain breaking path will be unique. However, there are several energy healing tools that I recommend everyone include in their recipe.

 Pray: Prayer is energy, and the spoken word is the most powerful form of energy because it is how worlds were created: “All things are done by his word….” If you are thinking Yeah yeah, prayer. I always pray,then maybe you should pray to know what to pray for. Pray for the Spirit to make intercession. Pray to see things as they really are. We each have our own reality, but God’s reality is the one that counts and is the one that will change you. Chain breaking is an important mission and you will not be without legions of angels and ministering spirits to help you once you take this action. Unified prayer is powerful. So pray for others and ask them to join you in prayer for a specific intent.

paryer partners

 The Temple: Pray in the temple and put names in the temple.  Prayer in the temple is very powerful. There are angels there in the circle who will take your prayers directly up to God. I have never seen these angels, but I have a testimony of them.

Find and take your own family names to the temple. This is not doctrine, but I have this belief that energy healing, while it will heal our living ancestors through our genetic line, will only heal our dead ancestors if they have been sealed to us. Why do I think this? Just a hunch, and lots of hints from the scriptures. Like these:

 And now, my dearly beloved brethren and sisters, let me assure you that these are principles in relation to the dead and the living that cannot be lightly passed over, as pertaining to our salvation. For their salvation is necessary and essential to our salvation, as Paul says concerning the fathers—that they without us cannot be made perfect—neither can we without our dead be made perfect. (D&C 128: 15)

And Malachi says, last chapter, verses 5th and 6th: Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord: And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.

Joseph Smith says this about the above scripture: I might have rendered a plainer translation to this, but it is sufficiently plain to suit my purpose as it stands. It is sufficient to know, in this case, that the earth will be smitten with a curse unless there is a welding link of some kind or other between the fathers and the children, upon some subject or other—and behold what is that subject? It is the baptism for the dead. For we without them cannot be made perfect; neither can they without us be made perfect. (D&C 128:18)

I’m sure people disagree with me about energy healing and sealing, and I’d love to hear thoughts in the comments. My rationale is that on earth we are bound by genetic links, but in the afterlife, if not sealed, we are kind of free floating –all sons and daughters of God, but in that world a son might be older than a mother and the family linkage is just not the same. I admit I have no concrete evidence on this, but let’s assume for a moment it is true. And that the only action you were to take was go seal some people together—suddenly any and all “energy healing” that was waiting to be applied to that person, is applied, and then travels all the way forward and back through all the linked generations. It goes far and wide. Not just to you but everyone in the shade of the tree will benefit.

Also, you will benefit in other ways too. Spencer W. Kimball said, “When we do our family names in the temple, we are building our own sanctified army that we can call on when we need them.”  That is a paraphrase of his quote.

 Meditate: Prayer is when we talk to God. Meditation is when God talks to us. Meditation is an energetic technology that opens the combination lock to God’s door so He can pour out his Spirit upon us. In Isaiah 55 God says “my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are my ways your ways.” But we learn in Lectures on Faith, The Spirit is the Mind of God, therefore, if we have His spirit, our thoughts and ways can be His ways. Certain forms of Meditation like Kundalini Yoga also can clear the generations as well as help us to change the patterns in our lives so that we don’t re-create the same problems. If you want to know more about Kundalini Yoga Meditation you can take my next webinar or sign up for my newsletter so that you can download me free e-book when it is ready in about a week!

baby's hand in giyan mudra

 

 Fast

Fasting (going without food and drink or some other thing for 24 hours while praying for a specific intent) is an amazing kind of energy healing. In Isaiah 58, God lays out the blessings of the fast. They are enormous and they specifically mention chainbreaking. Here they are:

“And they that shall be of they [your posterity] shall build the old waste places: thou shalt raise up the foundations of many generations; and thou shalt be called, The Repairer of the breach, The restorer of paths to well in.” –Isaiah 58:12

My personal experience is that whenever I fast, God guides me to a new energy healing technique or he increases my spiritual gifts and intuition.

 Oh and one more thing: this is actually the first thing one should do before doing any healing, because that is the pattern that Christ set, is to cast out any darkness, such as devils, demons, or unclean spirits. Always do this in the name of Jesus Christ as this is the fastest and best way. And these are the signs of his followers: that “they cast out devils in my name.” Then ask Christ to shield you in His love and power. Contrary to popular belief, devils are pretty common and like to hide out in us and act like they aren’t there. I have had them, and I frequently cast them out of my clients. They feed on our natural negative tendencies/weaknesses and exaggerate them. I’ll write a post on this soon. But for now, even if you don’t think you could have this problem, just humor me and cast them out anyway. It only takes a few seconds to say the words and command them to go. I recommend doing it every day during your prayers.

 I’m sure I’ll have more to say about this soon since I feel like I am just learning in many ways. I welcome thoughts and comments.Also, if you have a story about chain breaking that you would like to submit to Sarah, she is still looking for stories for her book. You can find her at www.sarahhinze.com

 

7 thoughts on “Chain Breaking”

  1. Felice, I really really love this post, but I very much disagree that our ancestors can only be healed if they’re sealed to us… Christ’s Atonement is for everyone, through Him, to each & every human backwards & forwards & sideways, no matter what faith/religion we are… and whether we’ve been to the temple or not.

    I believe energy healing is yet another facet of utilizing the Atonement. Why would it stop with only those ancestors who are sealed to us? As you mentioned, and as I learned in my own training, it’s an epi-genetic change that takes place… a change in vibrational frequencies & outer layers of our cells. I truly don’t believe Christ would limit His healing to only those who’ve had their temple work done.

    Think about the ancestor who is literally waiting for someone here on earth to do their temple work for them, & they’ve already accepted the gospel. Why would they be denied healing, just because some person still alive on earth hadn’t made his/her trip up the road to the temple yet?

    Or a person still living who hasn’t found the gospel & been baptized yet. If that person had energy work done -(which happens all the time) – would her ancestors be denied the healing blessing, just because they’re not members of the church? No.

    The quotes above refer to being made perfect… not being healed. I don’t believe that’s how Christ works, at least not when it comes to healing. Just because someone has passed away doesn’t mean they aren’t still genetically linked to us. That’s precisely WHY we are energetically distraught & need healing, because it’s passed down through our energetic DNA. I’ve been through some very intense energy healing through Carolyn Cooper with the Simply Healed method, & I know in my heart that the flawed thread was pulled from the tapestry of my family tree 100%, no exceptions. It’s a very peaceful feeling.

    1. Jennifer Thank you for your comment. I agree with your rationalle. And I’m happy that you feel comfort about your ancestors. But I also don’t think the word perfect in those scriptures means perfect. I think it means whole. So there will always be something missing till we are sealed. Hence, the reason everyone in the whole world needs to be sealed to each other. Not just Mormons as you say. That IS the goal right? That’s what we’ll be doing in the millenium? I agree that we can help our ancestors heal even if they are not sealed to us. I have helped people in hypnotherapy resolve things on the ancestral and historical level. But why all the importance and all the comments about the whole earth being wasted if we don’t all get sealed. It just seems important and it seems like we should be paying more attention to it and that it can offer healing to us in ways we don’t even understand even with all our energy healing training.

      1. I agree with your *perfect* comment & have always believed that. By definition perfect means whole, or without blemish or defect – (physically, emotionally, and spiritually). When we’re made whole/perfect, we’ll automatically be healed in all ways, because that’s naturally a part of it. Through sealing, complete perfection & healing takes place in all aspects, & like you said, ways that we still don’t understand.

        Healing causes a small portion of our lives to be made whole/perfect, AND YET (the beautiful part) a person doesn’t have to be perfect to be healed. How grateful I am that He allowed such mercy for everyone that lives, will live, or has lived 🙂

        Some of your post helped me last night in a huge way, just so you know. Things I already knew, but I wasn’t thinking consciously about it at the time. They’re too personal to share publicly, but let’s just say – It was big. Thank you for your perspectives.

        1. I have been thinking about this since I read the post. I agree with what Jennifer said about the Atonement healing our ancestors. But when I think about my weaknesses that I could pass down to my daughter if I do heal the causes before she is older. Some of these things have been passed down from my ancestors as well. I know if my daughter struggles with some of my own struggles it will greatly pain me, even if I do fix them through the Atonement. I imagine our ancestors feel sorrow for the effects their weaknesses have caused us. Maybe they are healed when we heal because of the joy and relief that will come to future generations.

  2. In research the term for chain-breakers is a “transitional character.” Transitional characters in families actively choose to go against what they’ve grown up with and learned that is bad in exchange for actions and mindsets that will help them and others to grow instead of being harmed further (breaking the cycle of abuse, for example).

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